奇怪!?

哇~
好奇怪~
我怎會有那種感覺啊~~

應該不會的啊~??? 都已經這麼自然了~~

應該不是啦~

開心到想哭~

今天跟一個好朋友在聊天~~
好久不見了.... 你消失很久囉~
我變懶啦.......
那表示你很滿意現在的生活~~
(ㄟ..... 我不知如何回答...)
但一切的 converstaion 從這裡開始~~

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how do you let people to care about other people's feeling too?

it's very hard to me in some case

do u understand my q?

you mean how to show people that you care abt their feelings?

the key is to always be sincere, and not act fake...

show attention to their problems when they tell you...and just listen and try to understand them

no.... how to let a person to start to learn to care other people's feeling

oh

well, it's hard to change others

sorry for the confusion~:P

sometimes we can show them an example

it's hard but it's possible

but i agree........... it's hard

or talk to them gently to explain to them

think as if u are their mom, how would a mom explain it to their kid?

or i just think........ if i start to do, maybe one day they will know becoz they can feel

you got a good point

yes, that is showing them by example...but if u don't voice out, sometimes people dun understand your feelings

i always speak out ^^

and meantime, you will have to "suffer" some time until they become "enlightened"

screaming

ahah

quarrel is normal with close friends and loved ones

parents?

but important to find a solution. Think in a mature way, and talk to them with love and wisdom

in the end, you have to be honest to yourself.

myself?

yes...some people do what their parents want only because they dun want to disappoint their parents

i know what u mean now

but inside they will continue to feel unhappy, because this is not what they really want

so i need to communication and watch their face shows

and adjust my teaching

not really teaching lar actually

inside, parents are scared of losing their security...so maybe first thing is to assure them that you will be there for them, when really necessary

u inspirit me a lot yo!

i dunno anything la...mostly theory only

hahha

yes you do!

i mean you do inspirit me a lot

ahah your laundry is waiting...

i should go maybe, otherwise they will cry

i am your friend lo...so u can always come to me if u wanna talk

ok ok

take care ne

thank you ne..... you too!

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在心力低的時候, 跟我這個朋友的對話就顯得很有意義了~
我覺得他的這一番話點醒了我~~
雖然很難但我知道只要去做一定可以的~
就像他說的, 像母親在想解釋東西給小孩子知道....
要給予愛跟智慧~~
觀察並調整自己的方式....
好受用喔~
這麼簡單的道理我竟然不知道! 哎呀~ ^^"
超感恩這些朋友......
me果然是需要朋友的~ 哈~

Let's OMAK~~

啥是 OMAK ? 你一定會這麼想..........
念起來像是~ O-Mac

全名是 Observe Merits Appreciate Kindness
它也有中文名字喔~ 觀功念恩~

可以讓我們時時觀察別人好的地方, 常懷感恩及感謝之心....
對朋友家人如此, 對不認識的也更要如此....

好像很容易?

可是我常常失敗耶~
尤其是生氣的時候~~怎麼樣都看不到~~
不過好在自己可以在做義工的時候 有機會時時察覺自己的心思....
來慢慢調整.... Also, 在跟家人講話的時候... 也會因為一點小事情不喜歡聽而起了煩惱~~
後來站在她們的角度來看事情的時候, 竟發現世外桃源~
原來我的世界是這麼渺小~~

你也可以試試看喔~
OMAK 運動開始~

Let's OMAK~ =)

慢慢來吧~~

愛吃的我最近正在訂定減重計畫..... ^^"
然後今天就不小心看到書上的東西..... ( 雖然好像跟主題沒關係... lol~ )

修不淨觀可以對治貪心;
....慈悲觀可以對治瞋心;
....緣起觀可以對治邪見;
....界差別觀可對治慢心;
....阿那波那觀對治散漫.

很有感觸說~
如何在遇境的時候磨練自己......

For example.....
愛吃東西的時候 ^^....
or 別人(親,中,怨)對自己不好的時候......
or even 造業感果的時候.........
( 更多更多.... )

五蘊當中, 每個都是有生有滅的....
要時時刻刻提醒自己, 藉由淨化煩惱來達到調伏的作用.....
慢慢來吧~~~

Forever~

今天終於見識到 forever 的郵票耶~
已經來這麼久了, 如果講沒聽說過 forever 郵票的話好像很遜.... lol
可是人家真的不知道嘛~~
就是說.... 買了這種郵票, 不管郵價漲到多少錢, 它都可以用~~ 而且也都一直有效~

那立即有了個想法是~~ 那每個人都買這種郵票的話, 那美國郵政要從 40 cents 漲到 41 cents 或是再幾個月又要漲到 45 cents 的計畫不就沒有意義了嗎?
這樣怎麼賺錢呢?

是因為買有價格在上面的郵票是為了集郵嗎?
還是有價格的 design比 forever 來得 fancy.....

有些東西我們想要 forever 擁有它... 但誰也不知道事不是可以真的擁有 until forever....
我們心愛的家人朋友不是郵票.... 一直把它放在身邊也不會"保值", 真正的愛就是讓他去成就他想做的事情....

amazing results.......

現在大家都說~ FB 是一個很有用但很可怕的應用程式....
它可以讓你和現在的朋友連絡上更可以找到歷經百年失連的朋友....
這讓我想起以前 super sunday 的超級任務~~ 呵呵~
曾經試著去尋找... 無名小站, 或是其他台灣的 blog 網站.....
但都沒看到.... 就沒想到這個 blogspot... 因為還以為這裡只有英文.....
想說大家一定不會想來這裡....
沒想到這裡跟 facebook 一樣~~ 各種語言都有!.....
就這樣無意間看到大家都在這裡寫 blog.... haha....
沒想到在 07 的時候就在同一個地方了....
雖然都是一些看不懂的東東, 但是還是很高興能跟朋友分享....
原來讀朋友的 blog 是如此的開心~ =)