開心到想哭~

今天跟一個好朋友在聊天~~
好久不見了.... 你消失很久囉~
我變懶啦.......
那表示你很滿意現在的生活~~
(ㄟ..... 我不知如何回答...)
但一切的 converstaion 從這裡開始~~

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how do you let people to care about other people's feeling too?

it's very hard to me in some case

do u understand my q?

you mean how to show people that you care abt their feelings?

the key is to always be sincere, and not act fake...

show attention to their problems when they tell you...and just listen and try to understand them

no.... how to let a person to start to learn to care other people's feeling

oh

well, it's hard to change others

sorry for the confusion~:P

sometimes we can show them an example

it's hard but it's possible

but i agree........... it's hard

or talk to them gently to explain to them

think as if u are their mom, how would a mom explain it to their kid?

or i just think........ if i start to do, maybe one day they will know becoz they can feel

you got a good point

yes, that is showing them by example...but if u don't voice out, sometimes people dun understand your feelings

i always speak out ^^

and meantime, you will have to "suffer" some time until they become "enlightened"

screaming

ahah

quarrel is normal with close friends and loved ones

parents?

but important to find a solution. Think in a mature way, and talk to them with love and wisdom

in the end, you have to be honest to yourself.

myself?

yes...some people do what their parents want only because they dun want to disappoint their parents

i know what u mean now

but inside they will continue to feel unhappy, because this is not what they really want

so i need to communication and watch their face shows

and adjust my teaching

not really teaching lar actually

inside, parents are scared of losing their security...so maybe first thing is to assure them that you will be there for them, when really necessary

u inspirit me a lot yo!

i dunno anything la...mostly theory only

hahha

yes you do!

i mean you do inspirit me a lot

ahah your laundry is waiting...

i should go maybe, otherwise they will cry

i am your friend lo...so u can always come to me if u wanna talk

ok ok

take care ne

thank you ne..... you too!

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在心力低的時候, 跟我這個朋友的對話就顯得很有意義了~
我覺得他的這一番話點醒了我~~
雖然很難但我知道只要去做一定可以的~
就像他說的, 像母親在想解釋東西給小孩子知道....
要給予愛跟智慧~~
觀察並調整自己的方式....
好受用喔~
這麼簡單的道理我竟然不知道! 哎呀~ ^^"
超感恩這些朋友......
me果然是需要朋友的~ 哈~